Archive for January, 2006

… the art of a good marriage …

Thursday, January 19th, 2006

there a long long time cik na didnt write anything here. why? nothing much to say, but what i can tell.. i have learnt a lot about life, and i really wanna learn more and more. my life going to be great. and i pray to GOD, it will always be.. amin…

this is dedicated to my beloved KiNg… nak add dlm testimonial, takleh sbb panjang sgt.

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say; I love you at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.

From this day forward, You shall not walk alone. My heart will be your shelter, And my arms will be your home

– Walimatul Urus –

… di copy dari myKiNg dan di paste kan di cik na …

Assalamualaikum…

Setelah diperkenankan oleh Duli Yang Maha Mulia dan dipersetujui oleh Penyimpan Mohor Besar Raja-raja, adalah dengan ini, saya cik na (nickname) ingin memaklumkan bahawa saya, akan menamatkan zaman solo saya tidak lama lagi.
Adalah dengan ini, saya dengan rasa berbesar hati ingin mengundang para sahabat sekalian untuk menghadirkan diri pada majlis kenduri kahwin di pihak saya pada 28hb Januari 2006 di rumah saya beralamat 836, Jalan Mawar 16, Taman Permin Jaya Chendering, 21080 Kuala Terengganu.

Besarlah harapan saya agar para sahabat handai dapat hadir dan memeriahkan lagi majlis yang tidak seberapanya ini dan kiranya boleh sudilah mewar-warkan akan berita gembira ini kepada sahabat-sahabat yang lain yang tidak dapat dihubungi. Disebabkan masalah teknikal yang tidak saya ketahui puncanya, maka dengan ini saya tidak dapat meng attached kan kad undangan majlis perkahwinan saya dan pihak pengantin lelaki untuk rujukan Encik/ Cik/ Tuan/ Puan/ Dato’/ Datin. Apa-apa pun, saya dahului undangan ini dengan ucapan jutaan terima kasih.

p/s: sesiapa yang nak kad, bolehlah emailkan kepada saya alamat anda. (email kepada my KiNg sahaja!!!) — ni myKiNg punya dialog.

(perrgghhh… gila babas aku punya ayat. Formal tak ingat. Hahahahahahhahahaha……) — ni myKiNg punya dialog jugak.

Setelah melakukan sedikit sebanyak alteration and compiling… ini lah output yg kita perolehi.. hehehehehehe… — this is my dialog.

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so then, i’ll no longer writing in this blog for a while. just wait for me to come back with my new status and my new wonderful life. thanks for all the supports. to all friend, with pleasure i invite you to celebrate my big day with me. see you at my place ya’!

take care.

Wednesday, January 11th, 2006

WHO R U THINKING OF?

someone i always thinking of so very much, all the time– myKiNg, kingariff…

WHO R U MISSING? WHERE R U NOW?

myKiNg, my family, budak bijan…

THE LAST PERSON U MESSAGED

myKiNg…

WHO MISSCALLED U LATELY?

ermmm… no misscalled lately…

WHO DO U LIKE?

me, myself and i…

WHATS UR SECRET THT U X TELL ANYONE YET?

if thats so called secret… why do i have to tell here?

WHO U R WITH?

what do you mean? right now? here? or who is my date? i am with nobody, no one in the office. but then i am always with myKiNg…

WHO DO U HATE?

hating people is not my style… i wouldnt gain anything… but then… dont mess me up la!!!

HAVE U HURT BECAUSE OF LOVE?

nope and never. and i pray to GOD it not going to be happen in my life…

DO U WATCH SPONGEBOB?

seldom…

WHATS YOUR FAV SONG?

currently… selamat pengantin baru by late saloma… ahaaksss.. jokes!!!

DO U LIKE/HATE LOVE?

sometimes i do hate love, but i gain nothing… love is so pure, anugerah Tuhan yg takterhingga. appreciate it and you will find yourself in the top of the world… i adore it so much… because of love i m here like this… this moment…

DO U SLEEP ALONE?

hmmm…wat do u think, do i? yes i am, stay alone and sleep alone… just a few days to have my own sleeping partner… hikhikhikhikkk

DO U HAVE TEDDY BEAR?

yeahh… lots. a gift from my dad, then my angah bought the big teddy when he got his very first salary (i am the only one yg dpt gift from his salary.. ahahaksss!!!) and a few gifts from friends and also specially from myKiNg. he gave me when i coming back from brunei…

DO U HATE DOING THIS?

not really… i have nothing much to do right now…

WHATS YOUR BAD HABIT?

habits? bad? everything i do, anything pun, taksah kalau takmain2…

DO U THINK U R LUCKY?

well… i can say, yes i am. i am lucky enough to have my family and so very lucky to be a QuEEN of myKiNg…

WHO WOULD U LIKE TO MEET NOW?

myKiNg…

WHAT U THINK ABOUT THE PERSON ASK U TO DO IT?

do what?!!

DO U WISH TO END ANSWERING NOW?

what ever!!!

WHATS YOUR LATEST WISH AND REALLY HOPE FOR IT?

latest wish? and hope really for it? i want to be happy with myKiNg… not pretending to be happy… but really happy!!! i dont want any border exist between our relationship. to be with him… live my life forever and ever with myKiNg… no secret… aminnn…

cik naa.. cik naaa…. huhhhh… what the bloody hell yg cik na buat ni? actually i am so bored. i am thinking about someone, thinking about this thinking about that… sometime life’s not fair… why it must be like that? why people must think that way? for me, i never regret. that is what i want. i am the one who create my path for my future, i am the one who plan a good things for my future. why must i bother with something else that never give anything to me… i am lucky enough to have such a family family to be with me ups and downs, lucky enough to have my future husband that i trust so very much. what will i be if i lost them all? what will it be if something i never imagine happen to me? do i have someone else to trust? to be with? what is the guarantee? cik na starts talking nonsense… ahaakss… that is life. asam garam kehidupan. tu baru kehidupan single life.. belum kehidupan berumahtangga, suami isteri, belum kehidupan dgn anak2 sendiri… as lots of people say, semua atas kita. cara individu itu sendiri terima dan cara individu itu memikirkan nya. kalau berfikir secara complicated, maka complicated la hasilnya, kalau berfikir cara singkat, maka hasil nya pun nampak simple sgt laa.. so nak pikir camana? pikir la cara rasional tanpa melibatkan pihak2 yg tak sepatutnya.

cik na, life’s going to change.. from a tiny small changes to the xxxxxl changes you will face. be there, stand for it. no turning back, just go through for what ever it is. be yourself, dont be hypocrite, dont be too confident, dont be too weak… you have your king’s spirit. you have your king’s prayer, you have your king’s support. he will always be with you cik na. he will always will… trust me!!!

i got to stop. will write later if i have a chance to do so. ya’ all… take care!

… i wish you …

Tuesday, January 10th, 2006

hopefully it is not too late to wish ya all (to whom it may concern) "SeLaMaT HaRi RaYa AiDiLAdHa"

else?

nanti laaa…

… new 2006 …

Monday, January 2nd, 2006

hello all… to begin with, first of all i wish happy new year 2006. hopefully you guys will success in 2005 and become more successful in everything you do in this 2006.

2006… is the beginning for my new life. ahaakss.. i will do the best for my beloved and our future. what to say about this new year? what else if not thank to Allah coz keep me breath in this earth, gave me a wonderful life i never dream of, gave my heart to someone that i love most and most of all, keep us whole family in good health. alhamdulillah syukur. i pray that, the years ahead will bring more good and positive things in our life. insyaAllah.

what else? celebrate new year? nope and never. just pray to Allah to keep me save and sound, and thank to Him and also pray for myKiNg and families. so what cik na did during the holiday? actually (ahaaksss.. cam temuramah lak ye?..) eemm actually doing nothing at all. guess what? my boss gave us one week of holiday, since a week after xmas before new year. by then, today la kitorg start keje balik lepas cuti xmas tu. but then, i went to nowhere pun during the ‘free’ holiday. just stay at home. kalau rasa boring editing the astro channel, siap2, start kete, vroommm… dtg opis. bosan godek2 tenet and laptop kat opis ni.. vrrommmm balik umah balik. hehehee… else? nothing… haa.. i did a little shopping for our home sweet home. ana tak balik trg coz the weather is not really good for me to do so. tak confident pulak trip ni ana nak drive sensorg. ye la.. but its ok la.. myKiNg pun cuti jugak since xmas tu sampai la new year. he going to finish his annual leaves yg ter over byknye tuh. so then, by today pun dia start keje.

aktiviti myKiNg masa dia cuti? errmmm… he fulfill his time utk cat umah dia. bukan umah family dia, but umah dia la.. umah yg dia beli la. so dia abihkan masa dia kat umah je la nak siapkan painting tu. woopss so sorry, it’s not his house. it is our house (dia marah if i say tu umah dia. coz he said that he bought the house for me.. thanks dear). so we didn’t setup for any date pun during last week. ye la.. rindu tu mmg le rindu seem me also have nothing to do. dia ajak tolong dia paint the house.. ahaakss.. bukan taknak, but i can feel that if i was there, takde keje yg myKiNG boleh buat. i can bet laa. so, i dont want to mess him up. i just stay away from him and his paint. hehehehee…

its friday… guess what, we have a date. a few days dah takjumpa.. wargghhhh i miss him so very much!!! miss u so much baby. and guess what? he bought me a keyboard. yeahh keyboard yg cam pinano (piano) tu.. woww.. this is the keyboard that i really want to have it. and now it is mine. cant believe it but it is true. the reason is, he dont want me to get bored while he’s not around. actually we are counting the days dah, coz our big day is around the corner je. but then, dia belikan jugak. i feel so terharu coz i planned to buy the keyboard after we get married. after our economy dah stabil. and now he did bought it for me. thanks so much dear. and we spent the friday eve with chat, jokes and laughter. feel like a glue, cant be seperated anymore. ;p.

saturday morning.. still with my keyboard. and i wanna wake him up. katanye nak mengecat lagi.. bahagian dapur pulak. with fun talk from celcom, i played the kuch2 hota hai song for him. ahaa.. bangun pun dia. then as i planned a few days ago (i did this specially for the one and only myKiNg) i will visit him at his house, leave my touch of paint for the house. dont want to break his heart. so, ana pegi mandi, siap2 vrooommmm…. terus ke sungai ramal. guess what? this is so dont know how to tell punye part, (umah dia beli tu sebelah umah mak dia je..) so pas ana parking kete dpn umah family dia, masuk, salam2 dgn mak dia.. ana pun masuk bilik.. mak aiiii katil tak kemas lagi. apa punye malas la myKiNg ni… aiyoo selerak nye. nak kena dia ni.. ana kuar bilik terus ke umah dia. i heard something from the kitchen but i am not sure kat luar ke kat dlm. i try to control my step (i wear his capal, besar tu-so kena control la supaya my step tak bunyi kuat2). and i though dia kat luar… wooppss.. he is just beside me, tapi membelakangkan ana sbb dia tgh paint the wall. i dont know what to do coz i am a little bit suprised sbb dia kat situ coz i thought dia kat luar. ahaakk.. what to do cik na? have no idea.. masa2 kecederaan la ni… then i just punch slowly his back. he turn facing me and guess what?

to be continue…

ahaakss… he stand still. mata takberkelip2 staring at me. then dia cubit tgn kanan dia.. and he stand still. dlm 20-30seconds mcm tu, and me… tetiba stand still jugak.. mengong tul. then myKiNg smiles… i can see the happiness inside his eyes. he really want me to be there with him. he really excited i am coming. yeahh if he not tell me pun, i know. i can see it. it shows. so, we have a short chat then he continue painting the wall. and me? doing nothing. but then feel so bored doing nothing. i ask for assist him. he refuse coz dont wanna mess me up. nanti baju kotor, suar kotor, tgn kotor kena cat… myKiNg said "ana dah teman abg ni, abg dah cukup seronok dah.. takde la abg rasa penat.." takpenat?!! ye ke? we will see!!! i still doing nothing and now i dont even care about kotor dah.. bosan tahap cipan ni. nak tunggu kul 2 lambat lagi lak tuh. nape nak tunggu kul 2? ada kuch2 hota hai la.. my feberet shahrukh will be on air. so, i get the brush from the tempat cat tu.. then i started to paint. paint the wall? no lah.. he is the one yg paint the wall, me doing paint jugak but not on the wall, i actually paint his foot’s nails. hahahaa… dia taksedar pun. kuangg kuaangg kuaanggg… at last dia sedar, then he appoved me to help him. yeahhh that is it. now it is my turn to show him my talent. it’s a gifted tau. ahahahahaaaksss… i just make the wall as a sheet of white paper. and i started draw the trees, the flowers and else i write in a big size of ‘i love u’ words for him on the wall. ahahahaa… dia dah pening kepala. this is why i dont want to come by. dia takleh buat keje. mesti pening punye… it almost 2, i asked him to teman me tgk kuch2 hota hai. he refuse coz want to finish the job.. alaa.. just take a short rest je.. bukan lama pun while waiting for his old buddy to come by to help him. duduk la kejap. tapi nye kuch2 hota hai on tv3 tu byk potong. awal2 pun dah byk scenes yg kena potong so not interested anymore to watch tv3 and also the kuch2 hota hai. kawan myKiNg dah sampai. we had lunch together and continue the paint job. no more shahrukh no more kuch2 hota hai… we had the great time together, me and myKiNg. and on that night we stay up still 5am chatting with his friends kat kedai mamak near his house. ahaakss…

sunday… guess what? myKiNg didnt touch the brush paint pun.. and even the wall of his house. that is why i dont wanna be there. we spent time together. pegi pekan kajang looking for something. then jenjalan lagi ke sana sini. just to be alone just me and him. then balik malam tu, still lepak kat kedai mamak yg sama with the friends yg sama jugak. but then sampai kul 3plusplus am je. balik umah.. tido!!!

monday? we spent time sleeping till noon. ahaaksss… ntah apa2 ntah kan.. but that is it. its him, not me. i wake up, mandi then switch on my old mate, my personal computer. yeahh my pc is located at myKiNg house in his room. dah lama tak tgk pc tu. dont know dah apa ada dlm pc tu… just wanna surf around je. sesambil dgr winamp, i enjoy myself playing games yg ada dlm my pc. yeahh got a few games yg mmg i miss to play. so i spent till noon jugak la depan pc. dalam kul 3, we went to nilai 3. nak tukar bekas telur yg dia beli aritu. dapat yg dah pecah. sesambil tu apa lagi, cuci mata la cik na. got nothing to buy. actually i saw a piece of kain yg cantik jugak to cover up my keyboard, tapi myKiNg said "takpe la sayang, nanti kita gi beli kat ikea ye.." ok. it is sooooooo very ok. ahahahaa… balik kat2 maghrib, mandi, siap kuar balik. his friend nak bawak kitorg makan kat yankies hut, makan cendawan goreng. woowww… cendawan goreng dia mmg ok la sbb kat tempat lain takde. lain2 nye menu, similar je kat mana2 pun. balik dah kat kul 10, and my trip kali ni ke sungai ramal dipenuhi dgn aktiviti bersama kawan2 dia. its fun. the friends berkumpul kat umah dia.. sampai kul 12 baru all of them balik umah. hehehee.. ye la sbb arini keje kan.. so, kitorg pun masuk tido. i feel like sleeping in front of the tv, at the hall. but he dont want me to do so. dia tetap nak ana tido dlm bilik dia and dia tido kat luar. kecian dia. tido dgn comforter nipis je pulak tu.. sejuk. taksampai hati sgt… but then ana buat2 tido je lepas siapkan tempat tido tu.. punye la beria dia kejut ana, siap nak dukung lagi.. hehehehee… notti la u!

and bgn pagi tadi.. siap2 mandi g keje… dua kete la gi keje.. and dah sampai opis, ana pun tulih le blog ni… yeeehaaa…

dear, love u so much.. thanks for everything.

till then, see ya!