… the power of three little words …
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mana laa korang dpt duit beli2 mende nih?
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nape takbgtahu mak dulu, cukup ke korang nye duit? kalau takcukup, mak tambah laa…
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cukup ke korang nye duit belanja untuk bulan ni?
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okeh la tuh, beli yg patut2 je dulu… and rasanye yang basic semua dah ada… so takyah pikir dah pasni…
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barang2 lain tu, plan sama2 slow2…
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congrats sebab both of you (me and myKiNg la tuh) know how to manage your life together. if you want any opinions or help, do tell me. if you need decision, do decide by your own, husband and wife… rumahtangga korang kan…
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i am so proud of you, my little girl (ahakss… not that little anymore mom!). share your joy, share your pain with your king. and also share his pain. this is the good beginning for your new life, both of you. discuss, tolerate, share, give and take, sacrifices and make a decision for both of you punye own good. mak dgn ayah takkan masuk campur, this is your life, but if you guys face any problems, even financial problem, do let me know. i’ll help as much as i can…
talk a lot with mommy last night. feel like crying. she gave me a lots of advices. she told me the do’s and dont’s in my becoming new life. thanks mum, you such a great mummy. huhhh.. sedih nye… i cant forget what mommy told and advice me
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lepas adik kawin, adik sah jadik isteri… ayah, mak, along, kaklong, anyah dgn kaklang dah takleh masuk campur urusan adik suami isteri. kitorg cuma boleh bagi nasihat atau pandangan, itupun kalau adik bertanye. and after in onwards, the decision making is only between you suami isteri.
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i am so proud of you… kalau kebiasaan nye, you have to refer to me, or your sis, or your brothers to decide anything, but now… you can manage by yourself with your love one. that is good. share everything with him. his ups, his downs…
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nak buat apa2 pun, bincang and ckp elok2 berdua. keputusan mesti dtg from both of you. kalau sorg agree sorang tak agree, cari jalan penyelesaian lain pulak. takde masalah yang takboleh selesai.
and etc etc etc… i cant write anymore… feel like crying :(( she is so understanding that is why she is the only mate i trust! miss my mum so much!!! wargghhh nak balik ganu.. nak balik ganuuuu…..
cuttt… enough about that… got something to share here… read it!
I’LL BE THERE - Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. ‘Being there’ is at the very very core of civility.
I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.
MAYBE YOU’RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you’re right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I’m wrong."
PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when others walk out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."
LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.
GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no one else has.
I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU. (myKiNg!!!)
Have a great day loving yourself and loving your loved ones!
