… congratulations and celebration …
first of all, grats to myKiNg sbb dah get his final result for his master study. alhamdulillah, dia dah tamat master dia dgn cemerlang. and now, tunggu konvo jek. every penat lelah dah berbayar kan dear, that is why… bukan nye lama pun, pejam celik pejam celik dah abih belajar. and his plan after this nak buat phd. and me, tak halang. it is good for him. wish him all the best and i will always be his number one supporter. tahniah sayang, u deserve all this.
also grats to myKiNg and his football’s team because they win the inter-college football tournament. even it is just inter-college pun, budak2 yg participated dlm tournament ni semua muda2, and play better. mmg sengit jugak la… but who knows? pengalaman mematangkan seseorg. ceewahhh… dalam maksud ayat tuh. dlm tournament ni, his team bolos 1 jek. and myKiNg score 2 goals for me. ahaakss.. perasan cik na ni… and again, grats to all.
else? grats gak for myKiNg sbb as a coach for his futsal team, dia berjaya bawak team dia mara ke peringkat akhir and sekaligus jadik johan dalam tournament futsal for woman utk staff iuctt. rasanye ana dah story serba sikit pasal ni in my previous blog. ok la tuh.. cuttt!!!
ermm… go to the word of the day cik na arini, pengalaman mematangkan seseorg. ehehee.. word utk arini.. buleh je kot ek.. pengalaman.. experience. life experience la yg we wanna talk about. what experience? myKiNg nye old buddy, kawan sejak kecik… he get close to me lately, and i am so pity with him. his life going so wrong lately ni without any reason. nak cerita details rasanye no need la, but in this case i feel like we never can predict what will happen in the future and semua kejadian tu kadang2 taksemestinye mempunyai alasan yg kukuh dan munasabah. marriage life, life yg i will go through with myKiNg sooner. mmg byk asam garamnye.. sometimes peoples say ‘time bercinta semua manis, semua indah.. dah kawin nanti tau la korang…’ statement tu mmg selalu kita dgr and kenkadang mende tu boleh di apply and sometimes takleh dipakai langsung. mende2 camni for me depends on individu. people can change. and what i’m trying to do and i pray to God is only i will never change. if i’m going to change pun, change ke arah kebaikan for myKiNg and my future family.. and pray the same for myKiNg. we cant predict our future, but we can create the future on our own.
there’s a lot of lesson i’ve learnt. learn for good. it not waste me a penny pun. so, just grab it and learn it. sometimes we try to be the very best for our partner, we want him/her to get the very best from us. we sacrifice everything just want them to be happy with no tears. no matter what, everything i do, i do it for u. as long as u r happy, i am always happy.
life kita bukan antara kita dgn partner je, tapi dgn family kedua2 belah pihak. amik yg paling penting iaitu family dia dgn family kita. sedara mara lain takyah kira la.. can we adapt? cara dia mungkin taksama dgn cara keluarga kita.. can we cope? this is the main part yg rata2 org risau utk berkawin. lagipun, dlm perkahwinan ni, kita bukan je kawin dgn our partner, tapi we married with the whole family. how? taksalah jika pepatah menyebut ‘buang emak buang saudara kerana kasih hamba turutkan…’ this statement have a very deep meaning. statement ni bukan bermaksud secara zahirnye kita tinggalkan emak, ayah or saudara mara.. but sometimes we have to sacrifice our family nye feeling just to make sure our partner get the best from us. it hard to describe this thing and also taktahu nak kasik contoh yg camana.. but rasanye dah jelas mende tu.. sbb asal usul nye kita dari dua family yg berbeza. nyata cara kita lain.. dan mungkin ada lagi perbezaan yg kita taknampak. kena dgn cara and beruntung kalau we have the lovely parent yang understand our situation. so, kdg2 one side of parent terpaksa mengalah sbb taknak anak dia rasa serba salah antara their parents dgn their partner.
apa yg cik na merepek nih!!! got to go! da…
