Archive for December, 2005

… shop till i drop …

Tuesday, December 27th, 2005

hey guys! long time no see. cik na getting lazy these days. lazy to jot down something in this blog. ahaaksss… kepala otak melayang2 jek. wanna know something? yeaahh… nothing much to tell pun, it just a few things je kot rasanye.

last weekend, me and myKiNg spent time to settle a few things yg lum settle for our big day. on saturday, we first went to warung nasik dagang kat area keramat/melawati tu. myKiNg punye la semangat bangun awal semata2 nak breakfast nasik dagang on that morning, gerak dari kajang punye la awal.. but unfortunately kedai nasik dagang tu closed pulak on that day. takde rezeki ana nak bawak myKiNg rasa nasik dagang kat situ. boleh tahan nasik dagang dia, tapi quite expensive laa.. ye la, mende2 macam tu kat kl ni mmg le mahal sikit sbb org kl ni takkisah sgt pasal harga, janji makan sedap. then dah takde rezeki tu, we went to pasar keramat. pasar keramat? but why? to have our breakfast or what? actually we went to pasar keramat sbb nak cari kedai buat capal. myKiNg nak tempah capal for our wed. so, as we know kat pasar keramat tu ada tempat buat capal. then, ni nak g tempah la. kedai tu pulak bukak kul 11, so we have our breakfast kat warong sekitar pasar keramat tu je la. makan roti canai. kedai tu pun mmg jual roti canai jek. tukang tebar dia siap 2-3org tu. maybe mmg power kot roti canai dia among that area. after finish our breakfast yg takmacam breakfast tu sbb dah kat kul 11am, we went back to the kedai capal. humm dah bukak dah. myKiNg tempah 2pasang capal. ahaaksss… myKiNg kan pahlawan melayu terakhir, dia takmain la pakai2 kasut time2 majlis2 macam ni.. ni mesti nak capal. dia jenjalan pun, dia pakai capal gak. sib baik keris tu takleh dibawak jenjalan cam handphone, kalau tak, mau nye dia bawak keris mana je dia pegi. hehehee… jgn marah yang, gurau jek. so, dah tempah capal.

then, we went to my favourite shopping place. where else kalau bukan s o g o. not shop for anything pun, tapi i received rm85 voucher from sogo so have to spend it la… first we went to the home appliances department. 2-3kali round department tu je, but nothing to buy. we thought nak beli perkakas rumah or what so ever yg berkaitan. malang nye kebanyak brg2 umah tu kitorg dah ada. i mean basic things la. nak beli croning ware ke, set periuk ke apa ke kat sogo ni taksesuai, sbb mahal sgt la. dah taklarat nak decide. dont know what to buy with the rm 85. huhh… this is the worse case scenario. takpenah2 susah nak belanjakan duit yg ada, but this time it is so hard to spend the rm85. i am so tired already, perut pun dah lapar. i said to my dear "sayang, abg beli je la apa2, i have no idea laa.." myKiNg replied "i have nothing to buy.. go and buy your cloth then we have our lunch at secret recipe." oh what he said? secret recipe.. wahh i cant wait. but then how about this rm85 voucher? he asked me to buy a cloth for me? oh no. bukan taknak, tapi u guys guess what? wardrobe empat pintu kat umah tu penuh dgn mt clothes. takkan nak tambah lagi kot? aritu pun myKiNg dah sound "dah penuh dgn baju ana je dlm almari ni, abih nanti baju abg nak letak mana?" ahaaksss… ala sayang, nanti kita adjust la yek. then, for not wasting the time, i suggest myKiNg to buy his kemeja or anything la that he wanted. terus je ana tarik tgn dia ke men’s department. yeahhh got his kemeja satu, then still have the balance. aahhh what to buy more ni? errmm he wanted to buy his underware. i dont care, anything will do. time2 darurat camni, beli je la apa pun asalkan rm85 tu abih. so settled. then guess what? again, my favourite place for have lunch pulak. secret recipe, here i come. hahahaaa…

then we went to my aunt’s house. have to pick up something from her. blaa blaa blaaa… everything settled. dinner.. waiting for his friend come to our place sbb nak g belanja that guy makan tomyam thai and coincidently, that day is his friend birthday. makan makan and makan somemore…

balik dah quite lewat gak. layan tv jap. then zZZzzZzZZZ….

okeh, cik na will write back later… till then.. bai and take care!

… congratulations and celebration …

Tuesday, December 20th, 2005

first of all, grats to myKiNg sbb dah get his final result for his master study. alhamdulillah, dia dah tamat master dia dgn cemerlang. and now, tunggu konvo jek. every penat lelah dah berbayar kan dear, that is why… bukan nye lama pun, pejam celik pejam celik dah abih belajar. and his plan after this nak buat phd. and me, tak halang. it is good for him. wish him all the best and i will always be his number one supporter. tahniah sayang, u deserve all this.

also grats to myKiNg and his football’s team because they win the inter-college football tournament. even it is just inter-college pun, budak2 yg participated dlm tournament ni semua muda2, and play better. mmg sengit jugak la… but who knows? pengalaman mematangkan seseorg. ceewahhh… dalam maksud ayat tuh. dlm tournament ni, his team bolos 1 jek. and myKiNg score 2 goals for me. ahaakss.. perasan cik na ni… and again, grats to all.

else? grats gak for myKiNg sbb as a coach for his futsal team, dia berjaya bawak team dia mara ke peringkat akhir and sekaligus jadik johan dalam tournament futsal for woman utk staff iuctt. rasanye ana dah story serba sikit pasal ni in my previous blog. ok la tuh.. cuttt!!!

ermm… go to the word of the day cik na arini, pengalaman mematangkan seseorg. ehehee.. word utk arini.. buleh je kot ek.. pengalaman.. experience. life experience la yg we wanna talk about. what experience? myKiNg nye old buddy, kawan sejak kecik… he get close to me lately, and i am so pity with him. his life going so wrong lately ni without any reason. nak cerita details rasanye no need la, but in this case i feel like we never can predict what will happen in the future and semua kejadian tu kadang2 taksemestinye mempunyai alasan yg kukuh dan munasabah. marriage life, life yg i will go through with myKiNg sooner. mmg byk asam garamnye.. sometimes peoples say ‘time bercinta semua manis, semua indah.. dah kawin nanti tau la korang…’ statement tu mmg selalu kita dgr and kenkadang mende tu boleh di apply and sometimes takleh dipakai langsung. mende2 camni for me depends on individu. people can change. and what i’m trying to do and i pray to God is only i will never change. if i’m going to change pun, change ke arah kebaikan for myKiNg and my future family.. and pray the same for myKiNg. we cant predict our future, but we can create the future on our own.

there’s a lot of lesson i’ve learnt. learn for good. it not waste me a penny pun. so, just grab it and learn it. sometimes we try to be the very best for our partner, we want him/her to get the very best from us. we sacrifice everything just want them to be happy with no tears. no matter what, everything i do, i do it for u. as long as u r happy, i am always happy.

life kita bukan antara kita dgn partner je, tapi dgn family kedua2 belah pihak. amik yg paling penting iaitu family dia dgn family kita. sedara mara lain takyah kira la.. can we adapt? cara dia mungkin taksama dgn cara keluarga kita.. can we cope? this is the main part yg rata2 org risau utk berkawin. lagipun, dlm perkahwinan ni, kita bukan je kawin dgn our partner, tapi we married with the whole family. how? taksalah jika pepatah menyebut ‘buang emak buang saudara kerana kasih hamba turutkan…’ this statement have a very deep meaning. statement ni bukan bermaksud secara zahirnye kita tinggalkan emak, ayah or saudara mara.. but sometimes we have to sacrifice our family nye feeling just to make sure our partner get the best from us. it hard to describe this thing and also taktahu nak kasik contoh yg camana.. but rasanye dah jelas mende tu.. sbb asal usul nye kita dari dua family yg berbeza. nyata cara kita lain.. dan mungkin ada lagi perbezaan yg kita taknampak. kena dgn cara and beruntung kalau we have the lovely parent yang understand our situation. so, kdg2 one side of parent terpaksa mengalah sbb taknak anak dia rasa serba salah antara their parents dgn their partner.

apa yg cik na merepek nih!!! got to go! da…

… holla …

Monday, December 19th, 2005

hello… cik na is back! it seem long lonngggg time no write in this blog. me, actually not that very busy, but my brain have no time to think what i’m gonna write in this blacky blog. there is too much things happened, too many time i go through, too many conditions i feced. and now… here i am… trying to write something that i also dont know what to write about. still wanna know about my life? my lovelife? yeahhh day after day, my life going so very fine. i can feel it, but in the same time.. what can i say is just that.. "who knows?". seem like i am so frustrated or what? am i give up or what kan?.. errmmm… life still going on as long as God want us to live in this world. no matter what, u like or u dont, u still have to go through all things.

ahaaaksss… what the rubbish is going on here? what to tell hah?… seem a week cik na didnt write anything… for those who follows my latest news in this blog, i wanna say thanks. and actually now i am ok. sihat alhamdulillah. hehehee… just counting the days…

what to tell nih? errmm last weekend i spent my time with myKiNg at npng sportcentre. his officemates ada tournament futsal. for ladies only, and u guys know what? he is the coach for his team. ahaakss.. he is my man. and guess what, his team is the winner of the tournament. we spent half day jugak kat npng, support the tournament. and me, have to support his team sbb dah terpakai jersy yg sama.. ahahaakss… i got a lot of friends yg keje sama opis dgn myKiNg seem i was the ex student and the ex staff of iuctt, so then i know a lot of people there. takdapat nak sokong team lain… hehehe… tapi sokong jugak. cik na, u r so naughty. and when his team dah jadik winner, jam2 tu jugak cik na ngaku cik na satu team dgn dia sbb jersy sama.. kuangg kuanggg kuaangggg…

the other day pulak, sunday we spent the whole day kat padang bola. myKiNg ada tournament bola lak. huhhh!!! cik na follow KiNg main bola? itu perkara biasa. thank God sbb ana pun minat bola, so then it is not the problem for me to adapt with this kind of situation. football is a part of my life even before i met myKiNg. and accidently myKiNg pun main bola.. ahaaksss…

that is why… masa nak tunang aritu, my friends asik dok tanye je how is my man, what kind of person he is, is he’s the sport man… blaaa blaa blaaa… for the time being… eh.. i mean, dulu2 my friends know that my type of man mesti sport man. mmg main bola.. other than that, taktahu la kot, as long as dia bersukan kira ok la agaknye.. but as long as i know, ana mmg suka lelaki yg main bola.. ahakss.. cuttttt… takleh cite lebih2 part ni, kang ada org tuuuu dia pikir lain lak kang..

so, we spent the whole day kat padang bola. team diorg dpt masuk suku akhir dah. but the match takbuat lagi. akan disambung balik arini la kot, kalau tak ujan. that is… else?

cik na and her home sweet home.. yeahh feel bored gak sometimes bila duduk sensorg ni. but it is ok sbb environment agak meriah around there. so takde la rasa cam takbest. kalau takleh tahan sgt, start engine kete, pegi la mana2 yg patut. ehehhhh… umah tu so cool. sejuk sgt. i love the house so much. kitche cabinet is my first interest bila tgk umah tu. hehehee.. our house tu tak complete lagi, tgk la, pas2 kawin ni kumpul brg sikit2. plan slow2 bak kata my mom…

else? nothing to tell, sometimes, something better kept as a secret.

till then, chow… see ya all later with a extravaganza story.

… here and there …

Monday, December 12th, 2005

what to write about? cik na getting so sleepy… wtill nit recovered enough fromthe fever, the flue since last week. tapi sikit jek… nothing to worry. and last night cik na got a very hard flue. cant sleep well, but it is ok. this early morning also cik na feel not very well, but now, cik na recovered. heheheheeee…

—————————— yesterday’s post —————————

——————————– today’s post ——————————

hai all… errmm semlm ana taksempat nak write anything in this blaky blog. today i’ll try to write something yeah. but donno what to write about. errmmm… last week i am going back to my hometown. balik ganu. a few things to settle before my big day. so far, the preparation seem like so ok. nothing much to worry. and mommy just called and said "dik, adik nye borang nikah tu semua dah settle…" so then, i have to go back again to collect the letter. yeahh i go back when the invitation cards is ready. what else to story huhh?!!

feel like going home.. huhhh… cik na feel strange inside! i continue later. got something to do. yeaahhhh!!!!

… is it your handphone number? …

Tuesday, December 6th, 2005

Cara-caranya: amik calculator…

1)key-in 3 digit pertama nombor handphone anda (bukan yg 01x tu)
2) darab dengan 80
3) tambah 1
4) darab dengan 250
5) tambahkan dengan 4 digit terakhir nofon h/set anda
6) tambahkan dengan 4 digit terakhir nofon h/set anda sekali lagi
7) tolak 250
8 ) bahagikan dengan 2 dan akhirnya,

Is it your handphone number????

no fear… ahaakss!!! any comments?

… se7en … and again …

Tuesday, December 6th, 2005

to know my se7en things lagi ek? hehehee.. jap ek. before that i wanna list something here.

senarai barang2 yang korang patut bagi kat ana sempena ana nye weds. bukan apa, list je kat sini awal2, so korang leh simpan duit. hehheheee… (melampau ek cik na nih?!!) takpe, pe2 hal pun kita list kan aje, pasni senang kalau nak beli apa2 lagi, tgk je kat list ni…

  1. peti ais
  2. tv
  3. rak tv
  4. dapur gas
  5. washing machine
  6. iron board
  7. iron
  8. sofa
  9. astro
  10. dustbin
  11. kain lap kaki/ alas kaki
  12. pemukul lalat (boleh kira ke nih?)
  13. set bilik tido
  14. kerusi malas/ kusi urut2 tuh (ni permintaan mengade2)
  15. rice cooker (sederhana besar)
  16. kettle
  17. sudip/senduk/penapis air
  18. set cawan & teko
  19. set pinggan mangkuk (arcopal)
  20. set periuk/corning ware (hahahahaaa)
  21. set sudu
  22. toaster
  23. microwave
  24. set tupperware (jenama tupperware) pilih brand lak ek, aci je laa…
  25. cordless (ni permintaan mengade2)
  26. tray (nak tray yang kayu tu, kat sogo ada jual)
  27. meja makan utk 4 or 6 persons. myKiNg prefer for 4. tapi nak kayu. tahan lama..
  28. vacuum cleaner (ni rasanye nanti i’ll ‘pau’ someone ahaaksss!!)

oke setakat ni, mende listed je yang terpacul kat kepala ana. lain2 ana list kan kemudian. tu pun kalau ada.. sesape yg nak booking nak kasik apa, tinggalkan kat comment’s column. hahahahaa.. kejam betul cik na ek.. hehehee…

okeh, se7en things will be back soon… tutttt commercial break jap!

se7en phsical traits i look for in the opposite sex:

  1. height as in tall… but not too tall
  2. weight… not too berat but then look tough
  3. cool hair (kemas dan sentiasa pendek dan disisir rapi)
  4. dark skin
  5. soft spoken
  6. sportman– football especially
  7. good attire

se7en things i love to collect/ make as a collection

  1. price tag or any tag from adidas
  2. paper bag and the most i got is adidas. its cool black bag
  3. kertas gram (kertas yg kaler2 and boleh buat card tu)
  4. syiling 1sen
  5. tiket bas (dulu laa.. skrg dah taknaik bas dah..)
  6. tiket tgk bola
  7. jersy

se7en movies i love most:

  1. dilwale dulhaniya le jayenge (1st srk’s movie i used to tgk and accidently terus jatuh cinta minat kat srk ahaakss!)
  2. kuch kuch hota hai
  3. jumanji
  4. police story (every part)
  5. soal hati
  6. pretty woman
  7. while you were sleeping

se7en telenovela i like most:

  1. yo soy betty la fea (time ni blajar kat twintech.. mmg akan balik awal utk tak miss cite ni. suka tgk watak armando.. comel)
  2. sana’y wala nang wakas (terikut2 mommy, dia takde geng nak tgk. so ana teman la dia tgk)
  3. mis tres hermanas
  4. la usurpadora
  5. sanjivani (ni kira telenovela la kot ek?)
  6. rosalinda (ni feberet mommy and my sis in law)
  7. secreto de amor

i think enough for today.. my head not feeling well. back off!!!

… the power of three little words …

Monday, December 5th, 2005
yeeehaaaa…. how do you do guys? hmmmm… what i wanna write today hah? miss myKiNg so very much, dah dua hari dia mc. so kitorg nye dating pun mc jugak la.. ahaaksss!!! what i wanna share with you guys arini ek? errmm want the se7en things somemore? buleh gak, tapi wait la jap. nak kena pikir jugak soalan2 yang camana nak buat kan…
errmmm… my new home sweet home. cite sikit ek pasal umah baru kami. tapi kami belum duduk berdua lagi. ahahaha.. takleh lagi. cuma preparation jek. alhamdulillah, last saturday me and myKiNg went to furniture/ electrical shop. shopping the basic things for the new home sweet home ni. almaklum le, org baru nak kawin, so ada la basic things yang nak kena beli. errmm.. i bought the washing machine already masa nak pindah umah sebelum pindah umah yang latest ni. a few things pun dah ada, pinggan mangkuk pun yang carca marba je. tapi ok laa.. daripada takde langsung kan?
last saturday kitorg beli rak tv, tv and peti ais. tv 29inch. myKiNg said, dah alang2 beli, beli yg besar terus. nanti takde la nak tukau ke apa ke.. hehehe.. betul gak tuh. beli satu ni dah cukup. pasni takyah tukau dah kecuali kalau kami nak tukau set home theatre lak. ahaaksss… so far, alhamdulillah. apa yg myKiNg did for our new life is so very sweet and so wonderful. dear, thanks a lot. i know it’s quite hard jugak spent a lot of money dalam satu masa mcm tu. tapi this isthe keperluan. kalau kehendak tu kita leh delay jugak kan? i cant wait to live with him. life going to be happier than ever, to be perfect. insyaAllah… so, setakat ni dah cukup la umah kami dgn tv, rak tv, fridge, washing machine, sofa… dll tu tunggu pas kawin.. insyaAllah, kalau ada rezeki lagi, kita plan slow2 ye dear!
mommy called. tanye pasal beli2 barang tu. she looked so worried… a few questions come via the phone…
  • mana laa korang dpt duit beli2 mende nih?
  • nape takbgtahu mak dulu, cukup ke korang nye duit? kalau takcukup, mak tambah laa…
  • cukup ke korang nye duit belanja untuk bulan ni?
  • okeh la tuh, beli yg patut2 je dulu… and rasanye yang basic semua dah ada… so takyah pikir dah pasni…
  • barang2 lain tu, plan sama2 slow2…
  • congrats sebab both of you (me and myKiNg la tuh) know how to manage your life together. if you want any opinions or help, do tell me. if you need decision, do decide by your own, husband and wife… rumahtangga korang kan…
  • i am so proud of you, my little girl (ahakss… not that little anymore mom!). share your joy, share your pain with your king. and also share his pain. this is the good beginning for your new life, both of you. discuss, tolerate, share, give and take, sacrifices and make a decision for both of you punye own good. mak dgn ayah takkan masuk campur, this is your life, but if you guys face any problems, even financial problem, do let me know. i’ll help as much as i can…

talk a lot with mommy last night. feel like crying. she gave me a lots of advices. she told me the do’s and dont’s in my becoming new life. thanks mum, you such a great mummy. huhhh.. sedih nye… i cant forget what mommy told and advice me

  • lepas adik kawin, adik sah jadik isteri… ayah, mak, along, kaklong, anyah dgn kaklang dah takleh masuk campur urusan adik suami isteri. kitorg cuma boleh bagi nasihat atau pandangan, itupun kalau adik bertanye. and after in onwards, the decision making is only between you suami isteri.
  • i am so proud of you… kalau kebiasaan nye, you have to refer to me, or your sis, or your brothers to decide anything, but now… you can manage by yourself with your love one. that is good. share everything with him. his ups, his downs…
  • nak buat apa2 pun, bincang and ckp elok2 berdua. keputusan mesti dtg from both of you. kalau sorg agree sorang tak agree, cari jalan penyelesaian lain pulak. takde masalah yang takboleh selesai.

and etc etc etc… i cant write anymore… feel like crying :(( she is so understanding that is why she is the only mate i trust! miss my mum so much!!! wargghhh nak balik ganu.. nak balik ganuuuu…..

cuttt… enough about that… got something to share here… read it!

Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

I’LL BE THERE - Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. ‘Being there’ is at the very very core of civility.

I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.

I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.

MAYBE YOU’RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you’re right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I’m wrong."

PLEASE FORGIVE ME
- Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when others walk out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."

LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.

GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no one else has.

I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU. (myKiNg!!!)

Have a great day loving yourself and loving your loved ones!